Embarrass you with bad names and put downs?	Yes No
Control what you do, whom you see or talk to, or where you go?	Yes No
Stop you from seeing or talking to friends or family or making decisions?	Yes No
Take your money or Social Security, make you ask him or her for money, or refuse to give you money?	Yes No
Tell you you're a bad parent or threaten to take away or hurt your children?	Yes No
Act like the abuse is no big deal, it's your fault, or even deny doing it?	Yes No
Destroy your property or threaten to kill your pets?	Yes No
Threaten to commit suicide?	Yes No
Threaten to kill you?	Yes No
Force you to drop charges?	Yes No
Say it is your fault when he or she hits you, then say it won't happen again?	Yes No
Force you to have unwanted sex?	Yes No